Lessons and Observations of 2008
So a new year is coming upon us. I’d like to take this time to share some wisdom obtained over the past year. Hopefully you find something in here useful for your own life.
Ever felt like you were doing way too much? Chances are, you are.
One of the biggest lessons learned this year was to make time for yourself – “me time” if you will. Time for you to do the things you want to do. Time to get yourself away from all the various things that you do. Time to wind down.
You may think that doing things on full speed would make you more successful. Yes, that is true, but only while it lasts.
A car can only run when it has fuel to get it to move. Once it runs out, you can’t use it anymore until you fill it up. Likewise, we only have a certain amount of energy. If we constantly go at things at full speed without taking time to “fill up” (ie. stop and rest), then we eventually burn out and we can’t do anything.
So take some time each week to stop working on your commitments, whether it be school, work, or something else, and have some time for yourself. Not time spent sleeping, mind you, but time spent for yourself.
You’ll thank yourself for it, and so will all those people you work with.
Vancouver does not know how to handle snow – at all. If you are one of those people, then you might learn something about how to handle things.
As you know, Vancouver had a pretty impressive snowfall these past couple of weeks. So many things that I noticed people doing were making me go, “What are you thinking?”
First off, notice how everyone just has a wide shovel for shoveling snow? That is not a snow shovel. That’s a snow pusher. As in, you use it to push snow off places like your sidewalk.
Yet, you see people use the snow pusher to shovel snow (ie. put snow onto the blade, lift, and dump it elsewhere. Not only is this bad for your back, it’s not the right thing to use the snow pusher for.
If you are to shovel snow, use a proper snow shovel, made out of metal. Admittedly, those might damage your sidewalks and such, so you may want to look into a plastic one. But for something that will last, a metal snow shovel would be something worth looking into.
Now that we have that shovel business out of the way and you are aware of what kinds of shovels to actually look for, please shovel and clear out your sidewalk. Walking around these days is ridiculous because some people don’t even bother to shovel, making their part of the sidewalk (ie. the sidewalk in front of their property) extremely slippery and dangerous. My solution to this problem? Walk on the street, where I can’t possibly slip. Dangerous, yes, but still less dangerous than slipping and cracking my head open because some lazy bum can’t be bothered to shovel their sidewalk.
Then we have the footwear. Rain boots are not something you want to wear out there! They may keep your feet dry, but leave close to no insulation for your feet! What you’d want to get are shoes that..
- have good grip to the ground, to keep you from slipping
- will keep your feet/socks dry, to keep you nice and warm
Once you accidentally step into a puddle of melting snow in shoes that are not waterproof, you will start feeling cold. Not a pleasant feeling.
And finally, the getting around in the snow. If you aren’t comfortable driving in snow like I am, simply don’t drive! Take transit to get around. It may be inconvenient, but if you properly plan things out, I’m pretty sure you can make it work. Things to get you started would be making use of Google Maps to look for public transit travel directions.
However if you are brave, have a shovel with you at all times in your vehicle. That way, you can at least dig yourself out of trouble. I did that recently for some strangers whose car was stuck.
Managing your time wisely is probably the best thing you can do for yourself. Also learn to prioritize things.
Time management is important. Probably the best set of tips I found all year came from Eugene’s blog, in an article called The “Not To Do” List. Unfortunately, at the time of writing, it seems his server’s down. On the bright side, it’s archived on my Google Reader, so I can read it again and share my thoughts here with you.
Of particular note to the topic of time management is points 1, 2, and 5, which are
1) Check e-mail at schedule points of the day, or to a maximum amount.
2) As a caveat to the first one, don’t check your e-mail first thing in the morning or just before you go to bed.
5) Stop checking your feed reader so much.
In essence, keep the distractions to a minimum. I do depend on email a lot – it’s my first line of communication with most people, but looking back, there is just so many things that should have just waited there until I am actually ready to handle them (ie. done whatever I was working on). Thinking it would be a good break, it destroyed my focus on the subject at hand and I can not go back to what I was working on.
Take advantage of your opportunities or you may just regret it.
I’ll admit I’m someone who would rather be 100% sure of success before taking a chance on something, but I’m pretty sure this has screwed things up for me at some point this year. I can’t think of any examples at this time, but yeah. Take more chances for things you want to be successful for!
Having a job is a good thing.
Ever since my co-op term ended in April, I have been just doing school. I really wish I got a job, since at least I can have some steady income. But then again, time, my worst enemy, stands in the way. Hopefully I will be able to work something out and get myself employed at a part-time job in the near future.
Computer graphics is hard.
As some people know, I took the computer graphics class offered at my university and was practically given a thorough ass kicking. The most important thing I learned from that class is that I will not go into the area. It has scarred me for life.
So as the clock rolls down to that time when the ball drops and a new year dawns upon us, it’s a good time to look back on the year and think of our successes and failures. Some resolutions for myself for the new year (because I know that I’ll probably fail to follow through) include:
- Get a part time job.
- Manage my time better and make it more controllable.
A fairly short list and realistic. Should be doable, right?
Have a happy new year!

January 3rd, 2009 14:46
I need to work on that time management thing too. last semester was horrid- I think I was spending nearly all my time either working on school stuff or avoiding school stuff (which is a horribly unproductive state to be in, because I can’t bring myself to do anything *else* useful), then when I found a rare chunk of free time I’d try to spend it all coding. I hardly saw friends at all. by the end of it I wasn’t even hanging out in hte common room, but I *still* had no time.
this semester I think I really need to limit how many things I try to do, try not to waste time avoiding things (if I’m not going to get homework done I might as well do something else), and take time to relax…
January 12th, 2009 13:24
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